{"id":13713,"date":"2020-04-30T19:58:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T15:58:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/shop\/affairs\/"},"modified":"2020-11-15T18:40:42","modified_gmt":"2020-11-15T14:40:42","slug":"affairs","status":"publish","type":"product","link":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/product\/affairs\/","title":{"rendered":"\u10ec\u10d8\u10d2\u10dc\u10d8 Affairs"},"content":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Affairs<br \/>\nAn affair is a dangerously garbled plea for intimacy \u2013 an attempt, however wrongly enacted, to remember what we so<br \/>\ndesperately want and need from love&#8230;\u00a0Our societies are remarkably confident on the matter: affairs are terrible things and only fools, monsters and knaves would ever be\u00a0involved in them. Those who are their victims deserve unending sympathy and access to a good lawyer. This stance may be clear, but\u00a0it is not especially helpful given that, in reality, one in four of us will be involved in an affair during our lifetime.\u00a0This is a book written to increase our understanding of what is really at stake: it looks beyond the caricatures to examine why affairs\u00a0happen; it delves into the question of what being unfaithful means and why, despite the risks, it happens so often. Most importantly,\u00a0this book seeks to help us through affairs, offering couples a better understanding of each other\u2019s motivations and moods \u2013 and,\u00a0where desirable, a way to save a relationship. We have for too long either openly condemned or secretly lusted after affairs: this,\u00a0finally, is a chance to understand them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":11117,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"product_cat":[658],"product_tag":[963],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product\/13713"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/product"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13713"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11117"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"product_cat","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_cat?post=13713"},{"taxonomy":"product_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theysaidbooks.com\/ka\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/product_tag?post=13713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}